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Friday, February 10th, 2012

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Frequently Asked Question: When will I die? I can’t tell you when you’ll die. No legitimate reader I know will.

Less than Positive Solution: You want to know. So you find someone else claiming to be a legit psychic. She “panics” shortly after you ask her when you will die. She then tells you if you don’t pay her $750 to let her smack you around with chicken bones, you are going to die a very ugly and untimely death. Imminently.

What you don’t know and should: She had KFC last night.

Immediate Result: You reek of leftover chicken and shame. Next time you see wackadoodle, she’s rocking a new laptop. You know you bought that, right?

End Result: You aren’t dead. You are, however, broke.

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Question from Sarah

Thursday, November 6th, 2008
Lately I have been feeling very moody, stressed, and, lonely. School is a big cause of that and it is a struggle to get there everyday and deal with people I can’t stand. So I wanted to ask if there is anything for me to look forward to? Am I not understanding something or am I missing an opportunity that can help me? I don’t want to shut people out because of how I feel but it is so hard not to because of the kids I deal with.
Whatever you feel my Guides need me to know to help me through this please don’t hold back, i’m opened to hearing anything that will help me physically or mentally.
Thanks,
Sarah
Sarah, I have to tell you, this is something that’s often encountered by older souls. I hate to get all metaphysical on your ass, but the truth of the matter is, that not only myself, but loads of my clients and people I know have been through hell in school, feeling very isolated, surrounded by morons, and not able to find anyone to interact with.
Now, I’m not sure if it was this upcoming year that I had previously seen you with a dark haired, light eyed guy, but I still see that as viable, but not until next year. I know that doesn’t help in the larger scheme of things, but you have to look overall at the lessons being presented, and acknowledge them for what they are. As far as this guy, he’s not a loner, not a outsider, so to speak, and he’s going to like you for you, and I’m a big fan, as I know your Mum and sister will like him too, very polite, and it looks like a fairly long term thing to me, six months is what I get as you two being together, could be longer.
As a older soul, you have to realize you aren’t going to get along with peers your age, other than this guy I see coming up, and that there are not only lessons, but reasons to pat yourself on the back for being a older soul.
For one thing, please remember how mature you are, and how easily you are able to see through people’s intent, and maturity level. This is going to be a huge, huge gift as you grow older and enter the “adult” world, because you will succeed in part because you can see what people really want, what their intent really is, and how to best interact to get what you need or want, and that’s not a bad little gift, is it?
Secondly, you will also be able, due to your maturity, to surround yourself with true, loyal friends, though I see this more in the future than I do the present or near future, it will mean you have a circle of close friends who would go all out for you, as you would do the same for them, and that you will have lifelong, productive, incredibly fulfilling friendships.
Thirdly, the sky is the limit when it comes to getting what you want in life. Be it work, family, love, whatever you want, you have the ability to work your ass off to get it. Let’s not forget you are working your ass off in school, getting pretty damn good grades, and while I don’t know that you are aware of exactly where you want to go in career arc yet, I know you can and will do whatever you set your mind to, and this is something mostly older souls can count on, in spite of the hell they have to go through to achieve it.
Remember please, that the hell you are going through now IS temporary, and is not going to be a permanent thing in your life, it’s going to be quite the opposite. This is one of those situations where you have to get through the bad to grow, learn, and be a great person in the end because of it.
You have true self awareness, and you know for a fact this is NOT something a great many peers around you possess. They change their opinions, their looks, and their minds based on what others do around them, and you are not swayed by that. The oldest souls are born knowing exactly who they are, and won’t compromise themselves for anyone else, and holy shit, isn’t that something to pat yourself on the back for?
I think looking at yourself and who you are, what you’ve overcome, what you have accomplished on your own might help you work through this, and lift the depression a bit. Take a look at who YOU are, and then take a look at who others are, and realize you are superior.
That sounds all arrogant and so forth, but you don’t have a arrogant personality, so I’m not exactly worried you are going to wake up tomorrow, leap out of bed, and drop to the floor because your head is swollen so big. Or wander around waving like the Queen of England, or thinking your peers are peasants.
You have much to look forward to, but I’m bound by rules of my own as a psychic and medium, I cannot lie to you or tell you the happy ending exists now, or in the near future.
But by God, you have so much to look forward to, it’s incredible.
Think a lifetime of love, happiness, fulfillment, joy, and belonging.
Nothing worth having comes easy, nor quickly.
With that in mind, what you are going through now WILL ease with the arrival of this great young man, but you have time to get through until then, and I hope like hell focusing on the life you WILL have is going to help you get through the rough times now.
Thanks a ton for submitting your question, I only hope the answer helps in some small way!
Want to remind my loyal readers out there….if you have a psychic question for me to answer on blog, please email me at lydia@lydiaaswolf.com I’ll have your answer up as soon as I can!

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Question From Kate….

Saturday, October 25th, 2008
Hello there,
So I don’t know how specific the questions are supposed to get, but I thought I would throw some out. Two of my friends and I are in the process of planning a possible trip to England this summer. I just wanted to know if you saw it happening and what kind of shenanigans I might look forward to? A nice summer fling, perhaps?
And then my other question (not sure of a limit, so if you can only answer one, that’s cool) would be I have these two very best friends, one who lives right by me and the other in California. We always talk about wanting to live in the same place again. Any possibilities there? Will they always be a huge part of my life? Bridesmaids, Godmothers, hanging out in the same nursing home kind of deal?
Many thanks,
Kate/Mrs Danny Jones (even though he’s dumb as a rock)

Kate, what I’m interested in, is if one of the two friends you are planning this trip with isn’t always fiscally responsible, so to speak. See, I might be off on this, but I keep getting the funds mostly being made available through you and your friend’s hard work and effort, and one of them comes across as a pretty free spender, so it might throw off your trip to England, HOWEVER, you know which friend spends a little too freely at times, and can reign her in right now, so that this trip will be possible for all three of you.

In other words, make certain everyone is saving as diligently as you, and definitely ride herd on this friend who tends to spend without thinking, because summer seems so far away to her, she might not be able to come up with every penny she needs, and yeah, you could always contribute, but remember, if you contribute your hard earned cash to her to help her make the trip, you’ll have to contribute more whilst in England, because if she can’t pay for her full trip, then she probably won’t have cash while in England either, and that, to put it mildly, would be a huge bummer, lol!

So far as a fling is concerned, once in England, I get you meeting any number of nice guys, one of whom sticks out. He’s got light hair and light eyes, good height, good build, very charming, self deprecating, and extremely funny. He is also very intelligent, which I know you appreciate, but remember what I’ve counseled you in the past on, even if they aren’t quite in your IQ level, give em a chance, so keep that in mind.

The thing here is, as far as flings are concerned, it feels more like you keep in touch, see one another quite a bit while you are there, and even keep in touch when you arrive back in the States, but it doesn’t feel like it gets intimate to me, or gf/bf-like at all. So I’m not sure I would term this as a fling so much as a firm friend made, and future possibilities for a relationship are there, but it feels to me like a stay in touch, see what happens, and not feel “attached” so you can explore every other option that becomes available to you.

Now, as far as your close friends, I don’t really get you all three moving close to one another at the same time, because life is going to be consisting of you on the move a great deal, and one of your friends, the more soft spoken of the two, is going to settle down a bit early, and not be able to just move when and where she likes. Now, the other friend, who is outspoken and says exactly what she thinks, when she thinks it, you two will be able to go a year without speaking to one another because you are so busy, and then get in touch and it was like no time had passed….and it might even be several years at times before you two are in touch, but the bond always stays the same. With your more soft spoken friend, I continue to get a bit of fading of the friendship as she settles down, has kids, a husband, and a home to look after. It isn’t that you won’t keep in touch, but you and your more outspoken friend are very alike as I see things career wise, so lots of travel and marrying a bit later in order to establish career first; therein it’s logical you and your friend who has settled down won’t be on the same path, and so will share a little less in common as the years go by.

Hmmm, on the always being a huge part of your life, no. I don’t mean to say that they will just fade, but it isn’t going to be a winding up in the same nursing home, even Godmother type situation. Life shifts and moves, and all three of you have your different paths to take, so it’s not going to be doing everything at the same time, in the same way, in the same place, because each of you have different lessons to learn, and some you have to learn alone, without having friends right there to lean on. On the bridesmaid issue, I get one being able to be a bridesmaid, but this is going to be the more outspoken friend, as you and she will settle down a bit later than your more soft spoken friend, not sure she would be any more than just a guest IF she can make it, and as things stand now? I don’t see your more soft spoken friend being able to make it.

I know you are extremely practical, hence don’t get depressed or upset about these bits of information. You will still have a marvelous time IF you keep your friend saving her money in England, you will meet a very nice bloke there you can keep in touch with, and in the future, something might well come of it romantically, but I’d rather you not pin your hopes on one guy, when so many more are out there that you can judge and explore relationships with, to find what fits the best.

As in regards to your friends, well, after you are out of school, working, traveling, networking, and forming new friendships in your travels, it should only ring true that some friendships where they also are forging ahead and creating the life they most want are going to take a backseat for a bit. It isn’t that you won’t be in touch, but the times between being in touch will be a bit further apart, as is right and proper.

Hope this all makes sense to you, and THANK YOU for your question!

Lydia

PS, I’ve had a few people unsure on if they should/shouldn’t leave comments…by all means, do so, I can use all the feedback I can get at this point :)

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Question from Tara…

Friday, October 24th, 2008

Dear Lydia,
Love your site/blog,information and readings. In a soulmate connection how does one know what the lesson is?  How you know when it is over, time to move on or keep the faith that things will work out for a relationship? How do you define what it is? How did you know you were not going to be with yours?
Tara :)
Well, the unfortunate bit is, often people in soulmate relationships don’t realize what the lesson is, until either their soulmate has walked out on them, or that they have been strong enough to say, this isn’t the man or woman that suits me best, they aren’t doing right by me, I’m sick of the pain, the heartache, and always having to be patient while they run wild, and walk away.
I will say that oftentimes the lessons we take away from soulmate relationships if we are not meant to be together make us stronger, more confident, and at times, can lead us into a new phase in life where we accomplish more than looking back, we could’ve accomplished without the soulmate’s presence in our life.
It takes a enormous amount of chutzpah to walk away from a soulmate relationship, and in the end, if two soulmates are meant to be together, you can walk away all you want, but your soulmate will come back into your life, like it or not. Then it’s a simple choice of shooing them off, or seeing if they have grown enough to actually be with you.
This happens quite a bit, and accounts for why a great many soulmates will spend years apart, then by “coincidence” run into one another again. At that point, you need to assess how well, if at all, your soulmate has grown and resolved the past issues that kept you apart, and then give it a go, or decide it’s not going to work and avoid contact with them.
I think you have to internally gauge how much pain and heartache it is causing you, how much they try to hang in there, keep in contact, and treat you as a person deserving of respect, dignity, and consideration. You also have to look closely at their actions, as opposed to their words.
With that in mind, you need to look at him specifically and ask yourself is he growing? Has he matured? Is he really making a effort to be with you, or is he running away and focused soley on himself at the time. If a man is focused so much on himself, he can’t treat you as you deserve, it’s time to wander off, give him his time and space, and et HIM handle contacting you back. If and when he does get back with you, then time must be spent ascertaining if he’s grown, and can treat you with thoughtfulness, consideration, and, above all, keeping in steady, frequent touch. If you discover he’s just going to keep in touch for a bit, then wander off again, you have to reassess if it’s worth going through the whole cycle again.
Cycles are inevitable and can last years in a soulmate relationship, and in many ways, define it from a normal relationship. As I might have mentioned before, there is a tendency for the less evolved one to run from it, worried they will lose their individuality in a soulmate relationship, and yet they tend to be very cocky that when they return, certain you will be there waiting. I would define a soulmate relationship as one of the roughest relationships to endure, it’s back and forth, you feel you’ve lost, you feel hopeless, you can’t stop thinking about the other person, and you get physical cues and mental cues that I mentioned in my answer to Dee’s question yesterday that let you know this is not a ordinary relationship.
I personally would not wish a soulmate relationship on anyone. I myself was in one, as you mentioned and asked about, Tara, and I got out of it with much pain, heartache, and even bitterness. I knew I wasn’t supposed to be with my soulmate based on his behavior, which was incredibly mulish, demanding, and no parts consideration or thoughtfulness. After struggling for the most part of a year with my soulmate, I met my kindred spirit, and much preferred the peace and calm, security and trust that kindred spirits have to offer.
Yet to my amazement, most people wish to find their soulmate, as the media portrays it as some kind of wonderland, which it is not at all. So I knew by contrast, Tara, that my kindred spirit..who differs from a soulmate in that kindred spirits are not your mirror image in personality, but close, had much more to offer me than my soulmate ever could. I also noted to my dismay that my personality changed, I was more submissive, and much more into pleasing my soulmate than myself, and that is a warning sign to all involved in soulmate relationships out there. If you find yourself changing for the worst to accommodate your other half, get out, and regain your self.
I am not saying that soulmate relationships are always hell on earth, but in my experience with thousands of clients, it is a oftentimes long and painful journey. When it works out, it is a beautiful thing, but even so, it is still marked by distance, pain, and long periods of time apart. When it doesn’t work out, it’s because whomever was the wiser of the pair couldn’t put up with years of waiting, not being treated as they deserved, and disappointment all around.
The only person best able to judge the worth of sticking in there and waiting is YOU….I can chime in and tell you what to expect, and what your soulmate is thinking and doing, and yes, I can tell you that you and your soulmate are meant to be together, Tara, but ultimately only YOU can decide if you’ve had enough and want to quit. I can’t interfere with your free will, nor (as you know) do I tell fairy tales, so it’s really based upon how much more you can take, and if he’s worth waiting for.
I do so appreciate you asking these questions, Tara, you know I love ya….and you might want to tune into next week’s radio show, we will be discussing Soulmates vs Kindred Spirits. We’ll also be giving away our usual $20 gift/gas/grocery card, so call in for a chance to win, if you know, you feel moved to do so :)
Just adding that I really do love answering questions on my blog, so for anyone interested in submitting a question, just shoot me a email with your question at lydia@lydiaaswolf.com. I will get the answer out as soon as psychically possible :)

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Question from Dee

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008
Hi Lydia
I spoke to you on ask 1 radio and you told me there is a man who comes in and out of my life. i wanted to know what you think of this.
I meet a man in 1986 and had a brief and intense relationship with him. i never forget him and thought of him often over the years. even through my marriage..suddenly in the spring of 2007 i had 3 dreams about him three nights in a row.. the next night i ran across him online..i tried to put him out of my mind but couldn’t
I started to get what i consider signs. hearing songs of our time together.smelling his colonge until i couldn’t stand it anymore.after 6 months if this i emailed hm. He was really happy to hear from me and began to lay on the pressure to come and see him even though he is many states away from where i am.
I didn’t want to tell him i couldn’t afford the trip. or how bad my financial situation is.
after 2 months of him intensely pursuing me he just stopped. you told me on air 1 you see a man back and forth in my life and he is coming back in december. I hope so. but i have to say i think i really have a strong psychic link to this man. and im starting to get signs and dreams again. what do you feel about this is there a psychic link.
Blessings Dee
Dee, what you are describing is a soulmate relationship. There are several hallmarks we psychics are on the alert for when it comes to a soulmate relationship, and I’m going to mention a few of them, including some I sense you have felt, but didn’t include in your question, helps validate what you feel and perceive about this man.
1. In probably 80-90% of soulmate relationships, one or both are married, or with someone.
2. The same 80-90% applies to physical distance (living in different areas) in a soulmate relationship.
3. In about 60-70% of soulmate relationships, there can be years that have passed in between being in
contact with one another, and as you have described, usually happens in a unexpected or amazing, just
ran across her/him way.
4. This I didn’t see you mention, but have found it to be true in every soulmate case, and I’m confident this
will ring true to you as well. You speak of a psychic link, and that is very true. What I’ve always goosed
soulmate couples with in readings is that they will usually be focused on work, on doing something
they are completely immersed in, with that soulmate will pop into their head out of seemingly nowhere.
I feel this absolutely has happened not just to you, but to him as well. It is a sign of a strong mental link
and proves with YOUR eyes that what you two have isn’t a ordinary relationship. It always suggests that
he pops into your head out of nowhere when HE is thinking about YOU, and that works both ways, so
as you think about him, you pop into his head and thoughts, too.
5. Also commonplace is having a physical tingle somewhere on your person that you normally don’t
experience, often makes the soulmates I’ve read for wonder if anything is wrong with them, but it’s
not a bad tingle, in my experience it’s like a part of you is about to fall asleep and tingles like that.
Might sound crazy, but this is proof of a physical link between you, as the above soulmate popping
into your head out of nowhere is proof of a mental link. Only makes sense that you would get a
physical link as well, as you two always did have crazy strong chemistry, as I see things.
6. Perhaps the worst bit about soulmates, is that they bounce back and forth, particularly the males.
Now it’s not always the case that males are bouncing back and forth, but it’s up there, 95% of the
time, I find that males are frightened of the intense emotional connection, and run away, then
come back, because they can’t NOT come back to a sense of belonging, acceptance, and love.
7. Most importantly, not ALL soulmates are meant to be together. For instance, my soulmate taught me
a great lesson, then left, and won’t be back. You can CHOOSE to keep your soulmate in your life if you
wish to, or you can say this is too rough and emotionally wrenching and walk away. I am upfront and
honest if they aren’t going to stick around, and in your case, Dee, you’ve nothing to worry about, as he
is going to come back.
Has it occurred to you, Dee, that these dreams beginning again and such herald either him being in touch again, or are prompting you to reach out and get in touch? I still get him contacting to see if you are still out there in December, but you can speed the process up by contacting him back. I know you are reticent to do so, but it would make contact a bit easier than the hesitance that he will come back with otherwise.
You could easily reach out and say something like, “Can you believe this economy, been having a bit of a rough time trying to keep up, hence me being out of touch of late, how have you been doing?”
Saying that accomplishes three things. First, you are letting him know that a trip probably wouldn’t be feasible to come and see him, without outright stating that you are in a tight squeeze financially, which I still don’t get you wanting to do. Secondly, as I get his personality as if you don’t do or say what he’d like to hear at times, he can back off, or be a bit petulant at times, so in this way you are taking responsibility for the distance, thereby letting him off the hook, and getting his irritation that you weren’t as eager as he was to see you out of the way. Third and most important, the tone of the message is so light, friendly, and casual, you are making him see all is well and that you would like to hear from him again.
Might sound odd that so much can be packed into one or two little sentences, but I know you can see the logic behind it, Dee.
I do believe things are still going to be somewhat back and forth, that’s why I suggest reaching out with what I’ve written above. You CAN and DO influence the future, and using what I’ve provided as a “script” of sorts will help smooth things out, and help him be more friendly, eager, and thrilled to be in touch.
Thanks soooo much for your question, always good to see a great person get what they truly deserve!
Just remember nothing worth having comes easy, as even when he is back, you two are going to have to talk and reconnect a great deal before any meetings face to face come up…
Lydia
PS, I’ve tried to edit the friggin format here about ten times, with no luck..so imagine the little spaces and paragraphs, because wordpress isn’t cutting me any slack today, apparently

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Question from Anthony…

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

1) I recently moved in July to a new area for a job, just finished school as an RN. I am trying to figure out what my next step is. I am not liking the energy at the hospital I am currently at. I feel very out of place. Also, I am not sure about my overall career direction. What kind of place do you see me city wise?

A) Truthfully, I’m not real thrilled with the energy at the hospital you work at, either, feels cold and distant in alot of ways, like you aren’t a person, just a warm body to do the work. Plus, it just feels like others look at you distrustfully with no reason to do so, and I am hating that. Now, as you stated, you did just move to get the job, but truthfully, if you want to take full advantage of the great opportunities out there for you, you are going to have to do a bit of research regarding who has the best pay, benefits, and so forth. I have little doubt if you look, you will be smacked in the face with loads of opportunities in a much, much better environment. To be honest, I am geographically handicapped, so I can’t point out a city, but I can say this, I know it’s warm year round..and it’s in the States, so it could be Florida, California, Nevada, Arizona, or any state where it’s pretty warm year round., To try and narrow it down further, what I continue to see is a place that is hopping all the time, and that feels to me like something you could get behind. Not saying you are a huge club hopper or anything, but I do feel you’d enjoy the excitement and variety of things to do. Florida probably sticks out the most, because they struggle with a constant need for new nurses, and offer amazing benefits, so might want to check that out and see what you come up with….what I know is there are lots of lovely women, lots of great things to do, and a much nicer environment in the place you will work for! So far as your career direction, I think you’ve chosen the wisest course, though you feel like you have a independent spirit, so you might want to check out prn services, where you are able to make a helluva good wage, but dictate your own hours and times to work..something for you to consider, because I believe if you could dictate when, where, and with whom you worked, you would feel more as if you’d chosen the exact right career path for yourself!

2) I have been single for the past two years, do you see someone crossing my path in the near future, and can you describe them?

B) Can’t blame you for having been single, as I get things you have been working your ass off the past two years, add to that there hasn’t been anyone who leaped out of you of interest, and you get…well, you being single for two years, lol! Now you see why I advocate and get a move to a warm state where something is going on 24/7 for you to have fun, meet others, and just have a more relaxed and easygoing attitude regarding meeting someone. BUT, I must say, I don’t see anyone until AFTER you make a move and get a job you love, as it should be. It’s a bit hard to meet someone and really shine to them when you are questioning your career path, not liking where you work, and just feeling out of place. None of those exactly scream to potential partners, you know? So, the way I see this happening, is that you will research, find a position that sounds good to you, move in order to get to it, get great pay, great benefits, and feel you are finding your niche and fitting in. Once that is established and the weight you’ve been feeling lately on your mind is resolved, you will be out and about. You know I’m pretty frank, Anthony, so let me say this. I don’t see you immediately finding the “one” and I’m glad for it. It’s a bit much all at once, and you need in my humble opinion, some time to “play” before you settle down, hope you agree with that. So what I see is you going through many options, dating liberally, and to some extent through this liberal dating, ticking off the characteristics in each person you date you really love, and those you aren’t so fond of. In this way you can find the “one” for you at a later date, without pressure on yourself for everyone you date to be the perfect mate forever and ever. So, psychic’s orders on this is..when you have that job you love and feel accepted and fulfilled in…in another state is how I get it, PLAY AROUND a bit first, sow those wild oats, keep track of what you like/detest in the people you go out with, and then settle down when you feel the urge…you know yourself you’ve been working so hard the past two years, you deserve a bit of play, so take it!

3) Is there anything else you are receiving a vibe about that I should be aware of?

C) I addressed the most important other vibe I got, which is that you’ve been by turns stressed, in hectic atmospheres, down on yourself, and feeling like a fish out of water, so to speak. This is why I want you to look for that new job in a warm state, and once there PLAY a bit, instead of just being so serious about ok, job is done, now let’s find mate-for-life. I know you can be tons of fun to be around, but if you honestly look at yourself, that’s eased off a bit of late because of all your worries weighing you down, so try and regain that person a bit more, because it makes everything in the interim before you get new job and start dating like mad more bearable, ok?

Also, I feel I have intuitative nature and meditate with my master guide and ask questions throughout my day. Can you tell me my guides name? Thank you so much for your assistance. Have a great day.

D) I would concur, but here it is, Anthony. I suck out loud at names. It took me..oh, about 20 years, that’s right 20 YEARS to finally get my own guides name, though I could see and speak with him the whole time, it’s somewhat of a joke on the other side that I can’t get names to save my life, nor initials. What I will tell you is that right now, the guide I see around you is a finely boned, very lovely Asian woman, who truly seems to me to be the yin to your yang. When you are feeling out there, exuberant, and happy, she tends to be a bit more serious and firm, and when you are in the midst of doldrums, she tends to be up, happy, and trying to pat your back and help you be more positive.

Hope that helps, and thanks a ton for giving me some questions to address on my blog!

Lydia

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