Lydia Aswolf

Just wanted to hop right on here shortly after radio show to apologize to ANYONE who tried to get through and couldn’t, really irks me, but glitches in the system we use to broadcast the show are responsible. If you aren’t familiar with astrological stuff, Mercury is in Retrograde, and it often messes about with communications, so that’s partly responsible…but I do hope you will consider calling in on the next show, as we have a truly exciting giveaway to announce!

SPOILER ALERT: Below you will find something that sounds rather cheesy and maybe a little mushy. I apologize but I am being sincere, and aren’t you all lucky that happens only rarely?

Suzanne and I were casting around for the best way to help our listeners out in the midst of a helluva rough and challenging time economy wise. Grocery and gas prices are shooting up by the day, and we figured we have somewhat of a base in our radio show to help out in what little way we can. Soooo…..we will be giving away a $20 gas card on the October 7th show, and we hope YOU will call in and win it, lol!

Now, we are both pulling out of our own pockets and sponsoring this ourselves, we both wish we could give more, but as we intend to give away gas and/or grocery cards and other nifty stuff regularly, we have to be wise in our budgeting, and every little bit helps! Plus, with myself and Suzanne sponsoring, you don’t have to listen to incessant plugging, and if you listen to the show, well you know I’m not fond of kissing ass, so it works out best this way!

Now, I have said above we intend of doing this regularly, but we couldn’t help but tie it in to the October 7th’s show topic, which is finances, career, and where this nasty economy is going to take us all. Don’t let that make you hesitate to call in though, as we want every psychic question you have, so ring us up!

Rosemie in New Jersey, not sure if you’ve checked out my site, but just in case, I posted this on ask1 forums too, I hope if you read this you WILL call in next show, I do not feel that I gave you as much time as I would like to have in answering your question, and I am going to call your name here and there on air, and basically extol you to call in so I can give you the time and answer you deserve, due to the glitches on the September 30th show you got screwed, and I want to make that up to you!

Stay tuned, who the hell knows what Suzanne and I will come up with next?

If you’ve wandered into nearly any store in Owensboro in the past ten years or so, chances are excellent that you’ve seen one or another of my five boys either running, screaming, or squirming on the floor, giggling helplessly. I have come forward to dispel the mystery surrounding this, because what you are actually witnessing is a bizarre father son bonding ritual that I’ve been trying and failing to come to grips with for years. My husband, Brian insists that he’s seen this same behavior in other fathers, but I’m not about to take his word for it. I know I’ve certainly never seen a mother or father smile at me in sympathy and understanding as my spouse attempts to punt one of our kids into a soda display. (no matter HOW hard I try, I can’t get font to work right, so sue me, lol)

I can grudgingly admit that on one hand, it definitely is the highlight of the week for the kids, and, God bless him, it does delight Brian, but on the other hand, having just walked up to the store with dire warnings to not rile the kids up, then observing his resolve to behave dissolve as he lunges forward to kick one of the kids feet from under them…it would test even Mother Theresa’s patience.

As soon as one child is down, the other two are running in two totally different directions, screaming at the top of their lungs, leaving me to face the checkout lines full of disapproving stares while realizing that yet again, we’ve left the grocery list at home, so I’ll need to consult Brian for what we need. This is a fairly useless exercise, as he’s usually cramming his 6′3 self behind a 5′ display of potato chips, hoping he can waylay one of the kids as they make a pass to see if he’s still on the offensive. My primary concern is that visibility behind a chip display isn’t the best, thereby allowing for the real possibility that he might waylay some other poor kid who was just trying to get some garlic bread.

I don’t worry much about our kids who tend to be missing in action for a few minutes at a time…mostly because experience has taught me over the years they are conferring and refining plans to run a sneak assault in on their father. Nor am I overly concerned about abduction. Who in their right mind would snatch a screaming, swiftly running target? As is, like some sort of bizarre boomerang, the kids circle like vultures, preying on whatever weaknesses they think they detect in their Dad, leaving me in a deserted aisle…deserted because the logical assumption is that the man fending off a swirling vortex of children is experiencing some sort of mental breakdown. The children themselves look as if they’ve flown in from the plot of the Lord of the Flies, yet another reason to stay far, far away from that particular aisle.

I suppose I should be grateful that the aisles are deserted so that I can pick out my items at leisure, and believe me; I would be, if I weren’t in the middle of heated combat between father and son. It’s nearly impossible to grab things off the shelf when you have children lunging underneath your feet, and even more unlikely that you’ll get a coherent reply about which peanut butter brand is best, when your husband is out of breath and sweating from this unending battle with his own offspring.

I can’t ask for patience and understanding when you see a man appearing to ram a cartful of kids into various clothing displays. Perhaps if I had any patience with it myself, I would. However, I can ask that you not frown too disapprovingly next time you see a group of kids run into a store screaming with laughter, followed by a man smiling broadly, and woman whose head is hanging so low, any nearby chiropractors cry out in alarm. And when a child leaps, laughing, out of a clothing display you are perusing, please understand, it’s only a matter of time until the real show begins.

If your doctor told you that you only had a week to live unless you overhauled your diet, exercised thirty minutes a day five days a week, and then…and ONLY then would you survive years and years, would you listen? Or would you get in a huff at all those pesky requirements and then leave the doctor’s office to never to see him/her again?

I ask only because it’s not so different, what a doctor does, and what I do. I am often told what future the person wants (usually with another special person) and guide them towards that as best I can, or let them know tactfully that it’s never going to happen. Now I don’t do this until I’ve connected to my standards, and that means knowing the person you are inquiring about, and the people around him or her, plus the people around you, your financial situation, your job situation, etc. In other words, I strive to make sure you know I’m the real deal and absolutely refuse to let you hire me, OR to accept your money until after I have proven myself to you.

Thus, you can imagine my dismay when a client who has not only been happy with my services, but also seen my exact time frame and prediction come to pass, comes back to me, and states that while what I saw happened, it wasn’t good enough for them, and therefore, they told this special person in their life off, and now worries they will never get back with them.

What?

Of COURSE the special person isn’t going to get back with you after you have chewed them a new asshole, because even though THEY came forward as I saw, they didn’t bow to you and vow to become a totally new person to your liking.

You would be stunned at how often this happens.

Here’s the deal. The future is one big lake. Your thoughts and actions, along with those loved ones, friends, bosses, and mere acquaintances are all rocks thrown into that lake. I happen to be able to read the ripples, along with my psychic colleagues, and that’s why I’m able to say listen, he’s going to get back in two weeks, but will only want to act as a friend, and kaboom, it happens.

This is NOT always the case, many ask why psychics predictions are always mixed, or even contradictory. Your answer lies above. If you suddenly decide, when the man or woman you’ve deemed Mr or Ms Right comes back around and acts like only a friend, that you are going to give into your temper in the heat of the moment, that changes EVERYTHING. In addition, your thoughts and actions change every day, along with every single person who matters in your life, so this would explain why on certain dates everything can change, and why if you consult a psychic once a week, once a month, whatever it might be, that things can and will change.

It it vital to note that NO psychic is 100%…. EVER. I am not 100%, never will be. If I was 100%, not only would I not be able to get up in the morning without falling head first, due to the swollen head from being right all the time, but I’d also be the most obnoxious person you’d ever have the misfortune to meet. We cannot be 100%, because we have to be humble and retain our desire to help people.

That said, if I’ve made sure with my own strict standards we’d connect, and you know without a shadow of a doubt I am correct about everything you need to know before proceeding with the reading, then is it too much of me to expect, when my predictions come true, that you do your part to help things along to accomplish your goals and have the best life you can?

Then again, as I often tell these clients who resist and deliberately go against what I’ve suggested they do to make their life a better place, the only person you have to look at the mirror in every day of your life is YOU, so make sure you follow your own path, but please don’t knock people who try to make your life the healthiest, or happiest it can be.

My experience with the “It seemed like a good idea at the time” phenomenon was, as such incidents usually are, disastrous. It began with my observation of birds in our backyard. We are blessed to have a numerous assortment of birds I enjoy watching when my sons aren’t engaged in chasing said birds off. It occured to me one day that the robins were looking a bit dissatisfied with their diet of worms and insects. Taking pity on my fellow creatures, I got the boys in the van with promises of McDonalds, warning them Lowes would come before Ronald Mcdonald did.

Gleefully scooping up assorted bird feed at Lowes, I thought with a certain amount of smugness what good I was doing in varying the birds diet, and hopefully encouraging more of them to visit my backyard. My sons were kind enough to take a interest, picking out what appeared to be a oversized ringpop, but was, in fact, a hummingbird feeder. Initially, I was thrilled they chose this item, thinking they’d noted we actually have hummingbirds in our backyard, but then I realized the allure of a oversized ringpop wasn’t to be discounted.

Flush with success, I pondered watching even more birds arrive, as the boys chowed down on Happy Meals and threw their toys around. I was also thinking logistically as to where to place the birdfeeders I had purchased. Having bought a pole to attach them to, I figured anywhere in the yard would do, just as long as there was a bit of distance between the birds and boys.

Upon arriving home, I lugged my purchases in the backyard, looking for the best place to put the pole. Luckily, my husband was on hand, as I discovered quickly that our soil is comprised almost entirely of clay, and on this particular day, that clay was extremely dry and hard, making it difficult for me to sink the pole. Apparently the birds didn’t trust my, or my husband’s placement, as every time they landed on the birdfeeders, they took off in flight again, which mystified me, til I observed a distinct leaning to the right of the pole everytime they attempted to land.

Naturally, this had to be fixed. Finding no interest from any of the boys or my spouse, I came up with my brilliant idea, which was to remove the birdfeeder from the pole, and tie it to a tree branch, about eight to ten feet off the ground. My eldest son was all for this. In fact, he volunteered to not only tie it to the tree branch, but also vowed to fill it every day. Upon hearing this, my other two sons decided it was only fair they have the opportunity to fill the birdfeeder as well, to which I heartily agreed.

It was about three weeks after daily bird feedings when my sons were invited to spend the night at their friend’s house, which left me at a bit of a impasse regarding filling the bird feeder. Assuming the birds expected their feed on time, I figured I could just climb the tree and fill it, which I proceeded to do. I’d forgotten how many muscles it takes to climb a tree, and didn’t recall my body shaking so much when I was tree climbing in my own youth, but determined to complete my task, up the tree I went, carefully balancing a cup filled with birdfeed in my trembling hand. I accomplished filling up the feeder, which I’d assumed was the most difficult part of my task, and began to make my way down.

My muscles having already been overtaxed, decided at a crucial moment to let me down in a most dramatic fashion, resulting in me hanging upside down and clinging to the tree branch with both arms and legs. I must say, the view was amazing, but it wasn’t my desire to stay in this position long, simply because I wasn’t in the physical condition to hold my precarious placement on the branch,and the ground looked rather ominous from my perch.

As things turned out, I didn’t have to wait very long at all. I’ve heard people speak about how they felt at some point in their lives, their body was betraying them, and this was my body’s chance to grab my attention, letting there be no doubt who was in charge.

Thus, without enough warning to take constructive action, my arms let go, and my legs, in no mood to be left behind, also let go of the tree branch, resulting in me hitting the ground, and rolling three times head over heel down the slope. I quickly got up, took stock of my body’s status, which seemed, luckily for me, to be in order. Standing up and going over what had just happened in my mind, I began laughing, and wildly looking around to see if anyone had witnessed, or better yet, got me on camera during my little adventure, but alas, no one was around.

The only evidence I had of my adventure was a nice long scrape down one arm. Unfortunately, this same evidence would be used against me in the court of my sons and spouse, all of whom were quite firm in their desire that I never climb a tree again as long as I live…or unless they happen to be around to observe the results of my next “It seemed like a good idea at the time” moment.

We are in the midst of a historic election, so I couldn’t pass up the chance to reveal what psychics are saying and seeing in regards to the upcoming election. It’s nearly universal amongst my peers that Obama and Biden are going to take the election, in spite of the…reservations of some people regarding Obama’s race and experience, and Biden’s apparent propensity to open his mouth and spit out whatever is in his head. Since that’s pretty much what I do day by day in both personal and professional life, I can’t help but admire it, even though I know political correctness is held in huge esteem, I’d much rather see the persons true feelings, even if they go on a bit (you know, like me, lol).

As a rule, we psychics don’t probe into everyone’s mind or issues we encounter; however we do take a good look at personality, and what a person will do in a given situation, to see if we could stand them for any length of time, or most importantly work with them in a productive manner. So you can imagine that we have been viewing both candidates, and their picks for vice president with unwavering scrutiny.

With that unwavering scrutiny fully in place, I’m going to voice not only my opinion, but what I’ve heard voiced by other psychics in regards to the candidates competing for office.

Let’s start with the least offensive to us psychics, Obama and Biden. I have issues with Obama flipping here and there on some issues, but overall what he has portrayed as his policies are truthful and honest, the man really does intend to overhaul the status quo and reform how things are done; however, logic dictates he has to work with Congress on this, and even with a Democratic run Congress, he still cannot change all he wants to in any short amount of time, if at all. So that basically tells us that all the wonderful policies he wants to affect are going to run into some difficulties.

I have no issues with Biden whatsoever, the man is very upfront and honest, he speaks his mind, and he’s very on board with Obama as far as policy goes, in fact, I argue that Biden is needed because he does have experience that Obama lacks, therefore, he will balance things out nicely, though at times he does tend to overshadow Obama when he’s speaking, which makes Obama look less effective.

I’ve basically saved the worst for last, McCain and Palin. There is a private message board on which loads of psychics were asked what they thought of McCain and especially Palin, and 99% were totally disgusted by the woman, and that very much is a psychic reaction, not a normal well I can’t believe he picked Palin and thought women were stupid enough to go for Palin as some bizarre substitute for Hillary Clinton. We cannot stand Palin because she is arrogant personally, thinks like a dictator, and is not truthful a great deal of the time so that she can gain what she wants in the end. This was only validated in the past few days ( the question was asked of psychics a good two or three weeks ago) when it came to light that she wanted a certain book banned, and threw a little fit and fired the librarian who refused to remove it at her behest. Never mind that she thinks Georgia should join NATO so that we can then take actions against the Russians should it come to it (suicidal at best) and believes she qualifies as a great foreign policy leader though she’s only been out of the country once, and can see Russia from her backyard. Or the fact that in the past day or two, she had a foreign policy meeting and only allowed cameras in for 29 seconds to take shots of her foreign policy prowess, but not to actually listen and observe her ignorance come into play. We psychics simply cannot stand her.

The odd bit here is that we like McCain, not just because he has been through adversity and perservered but because he is honest and forthright, and believes he knows what is best for the country. The issue with that is, his view for our country doesn’t differ fundamentally from what we have endured the past eight years, and also….most psychics aren’t rich people, believe it or not. So we frown when it’s discovered John McCain isn’t aware of how many homes he owns, and has recently also come to light, owns thirteen cars.

Maybe it’s just envy, that Palin is lovely to look at and has gotten so far, or that McCain is extremely wealthy, loaded wife and all. But no, we psychics aren’t swayed by that. We are as tired as any other American who has suffered through the past eight years, the war, tax increases, economy falling apart, home foreclosures, bankruptcies, skyrocketing grocery and gas costs, corporate greed and scandal, not to be confused with Congressional scandal, which has become all to commonplace of late, to the point we barely even notice when John Edwards is busted with his mistress, or when Larry Craig and his wide stance get him into trouble.

Maybe we are waking up and realizing that change is actually in our hands, our time is here, and while we don’t expect miracles, or bailouts (topic for another day) we deserve change, and right now?

Any change will do.

Join Suzanne and I in welcoming Leah Logan as our psychic guest on Psychically Correct this Tuesday, September 23rd! We will be talking love, relationships, marriage, and the common issues or problems that come up in those areas, so don’t you dare hesitate to call us to have your own questions regarding relationships answered, just keep in mind we tell it like it is, blunt and honest is our policy!

Don’t forget if you miss a radio show, you can simply access my Radio Show Page to catch up on any shows you might have missed, also a great way to access the site, AND get the toll free number you can call in on!

Can’t make my first blog post without thanking the great people over at Furry Friends Web Design, without them, this site wouldn’t be possible, and what a lovely job they did, as you can see for yourselves!

Definitely hope you’ll have a peek around the site, the radio show being something essential, in my opinion. Testimonials might be sprinkled all over site, but I want YOU to call in and ask your psychic/medium questions to get a little free sample, as well as seeing how I read before making any leaps into getting a reading!

You can also check out my feedback at my liveperson link, because for me, the proof is in what clients have to say, not in any bragging from myself, I do what I do, and that is that.

That said and out of the way, I am not at all adverse to making some blog posts about the questions YOU email me, so I can answer in detail, though remember, I do NOT offer email readings as part of my services, I just feel it would add a little excitement to my blog posts, a bit of Dear Abby Psychic/Medium style, and also hopefully answer a few questions hanging on your minds!

Not every blog will be answering questions, I hope to have some amazing psychic friends (lol) guest blog a bit about what is on their minds, as well as addressing what we psychic/medium’s do, and how we do it.

Mind you, I can never keep my mouth shut about what is going on around the world, or even in the celebrity world, so I’m going to be taking on some issues I feel strongly about and throwing them out there for your consideration!

Will be looking forward to your comments as I bravely forge forward into the blogging world!